Acknowledgements and Dedication 4 Foreword by Nando Brown 5 Introduction 7 1: What is separation anxiety? 11 Signs to look out for 11 Why prevention is better than cure 13 Why punishment should never be used 21 2: Managing emotions 22 Exploring emotions 22 Analysing emotions, and how these may outwardly display 32 Managing emotions on departure 32 Establishing solid foundations 38 Building anticipation 38 3: Building independence 40 Mealtime training: feed him and leave him! 40 Eating for pleasure 43 Food ingredients 48 Fussy eaters 50 Feeding raw bones and bone safety 50 Teaching ‘settle on bed’ 52 Building independence 52 4: Managing the environment 59 Beds and sleep quality 59 Room temperature 62 Reducing arousal 63 Movement restriction 64 The crate: your dog’s bedroom 64 Scent 69 The sound of music 66 5: Home alone and happy toolbox 72 Environmental cues 74 Key training reminder 74 KongsTM and other interactive toys 74 Toys 75 Should we feed our dog every time we leave him? 75 Signs that our best friend is happy 83 6: Assessment and worksheets 84 Comfort evaluation worksheets 84 Appendix: Resources and further reading; references 87 Rogues’ Gallery: the Cast 89 Index 96